WTF is going
on in 2013 that people are causing their own misery by LYING to themselves and
any and every one they can get to listen.
The FIRST step in achieving the healthy, productive relationship that
you desire is………this is groundbreaking here…….ADMITTING THAT YOU WANT A
RELATIONSHIP. Quit with all this “I’m
good by myself”………”#TeamSingle”……….”I’m not lonely, I’m just not being lied to”……..”I’m
too independent to be settled down”. It’s
total and complete BULLSHIT. Did you get
that? You are not even fooling yourself
with that rubbish!!!!!!!!!! Every other word that you utter and or type tells your
truth. The misery that has taken up
residence in your being and actions……..has unmasked you boo boo. So just QUIT IT!!!!!!!!! If you keep saying
you don’t want something…..NO ONE WILL GET IN LINE TO GIVE IT YO YOU…..they
will simply move to the next person who does and build upon that.
From there,
you need to take time to get over/make amends/learn from/grow from your PAST
relationships. Stop buying into this pop
culture, music based crap brain washing you into thinking you should be in
competition with your ex’s NEW MATE.
News flash silly……IT DIDN’T WORK FOR A REASON. That person took the time
to get past you and learn……..now they can be a better person for themselves and
the new mate.
If you believe
in your heart of hearts that you are better than the person that your ex is
with…..go get you a mate that matches you! DO NOT lessen your self-worth by
behaving in a manner than toddlers would not even stoop to. BE the person that you claim to be and relax
the immaturity.
What do you
think you are accomplishing contacting an ex about what they didn’t do for you
that they are doing for another? What message are you sending by asking around
town about your ex’s new fling? What good comes your way from lying to an ex
about their new mate? UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM… let me answer those for you. You come across as desperate and needy and
pathetic and still OBSESSED with your ex! YOU will NEVER look better to your ex
by doing this…..they are an ex…..THEY DON’T WANT YOU. IT DIDN’T WORK OUT FOR A
REASON……..LET THAT SHIP SAIL.
Take the
energy that you are so vehemently putting into destroying another’s house to
satisfy the misery monkey on your shoulder and put it into fixing you! DO NOT
buy into the myth passed from one broken heart to the next that you had not a
damn thing to do with a relationship not working. Rather your picker was off or you lied,
cheated, showed little to no affection or interest……you played a part. It takes two to make it work or to make it
fail. PEOPLE PLEASE STOP LIVING IN THE
PAST. Move toward the future HONESTLY.
Do not get me
wrong…..there are people that are happier than a kid in a candy store with
casual dating. There are also people
that truly have no desire to ever have a mate.
BUT let us be truthful with one another here……the vast majority of the
planet wants their happily ever after! If they didn’t….dating sites would not
exist………make-up would not sell……Steve Harvey would not have written a book……..advice
columns would merely tell you where to shop………body wash wouldn’t have pheromone
infusion……Valentine’s Day and Sweetest Day would NOT be celebrated.
Last…..but by no means least……. STOP LOOKING
FOR LOVE. It’s called “falling in love”
for a reason. Love will find you when
you LEAST expect it and take you on a whirlwind journey. You can’t force it. You can NOT MAKE ANYONE
love you. You can NOT MAKE YOURSELF love
someone either. All you can do is
properly prepare yourself to be noticed by your happily ever after.
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